Well Mmorpg gamers are anyway. There are definite 'types' of people who are attracted to multiplayer on-line games. Especially the roleplaying servers. I have been playing WoW since beta (about 15 months) and have met a fair few people. I'm in an average sized guild and part of a raiding community. I talk to alot of people there and have also chatted to 'strangers' a bit after some random spontaneous arr-pee.
Now I'm happy to talk about Real Life(tm) up to a point. What I do for a living, what books I like, music and so on, but so many of those I have talked with think this is then a licence for them to tell me their life history. Which is fine, and can sometimes be interesting to get a peek into another persons existance... but WHY Are they always depressed, lonely and suicidal??? Do I attract this sort of person? Is it the demographic of those who play these games... ie 17-24 year olds. I mean I had my fair share of teenage angst but it seems like a whole different ballgame these days.
Here's a list of some of the people I have talked to...
1. Attempted suicide
2. Has been in / is going into an institution.
3. Desperately lonely
4. Parents violent
5. Parents drunk
6. Prozac (insert random antidepressant here, I've heard them all)
7. Goth (ok she was cool *grins*)
8. Think the game is 'real'. (and they weren't even American)
And so on... Throw in the usual teenage "I can't talk to girls" crap and you have the full set, and its not just one person of this type I have interacted with, but several of each. I am of course making the assumption that what people have told me is true and not just some twisted form of attention seeking.
I can honestly say of all the people I have spoken to in anything more than just RP and general chatter I can name about 6 that are 'ordinary'. Well, no roleplayer is ordinary of course, but at least they play the game just to have fun with their friends, get some epix, and pass an evening without resorting to watching Eastenders (now that
will make you want to slit your wrists).
The thing is... My paranoid self starts to wonder why I am playing the game... Is my escape from the alternative drudgery of Tee-Vee just a wholesome evenings entertainment or am I running and hiding from something much darker?